How to Say Something Nice!

How to not say anything!

When I was raising my children, I tried to teach them not to say anything bad about anyone. Sometimes it was hard for them to keep their tongues from wagging in a negative way. I always told them if you can’t say something nice about someone, don’t say anything. Also, to treat everyone the way you would want them to treat you.

            It’s hard to be nice to everyone especially when some people are just plain rude. Those are the ones you would like to blow up at. Tell them to get a reality check. It doesn’t hurt to be nice to them as well.

            Not knowing the circumstances as why they are angry or unhappy, this is why saying something nice to is a good reason to treat them with respect as well.

            Many times children treat their parents with disrespect, by screaming at them, never saying thank you for what they have given to them. Always criticizing everything they do for them. Instead of being appreciative of how hard they work to give their children the things they want. Standing up for them and even defending them with all their heart.

            Why? There is no reason for their brute outburst. Even when children become out of control. There is always a way to sit down and talk it out, yelling isn’t one of them.

            My Grandmother always told me, You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.

So next time you feel like screaming at someone, parent, stranger, or a friend, think twice before blowing up. Smile and take a deep breath, walk away until you can get your anger in check and say something nice.

MAY GOD BLESS!